Choosing Peace, One Decision at a Time A reflection on food, love, boundaries, and the quiet wisdom of asking one simple question before we say yes—to anything. Some lessons don’t announce themselves loudly. They show up softly—again and again—until one day you realize they’ve been teaching you all along. Lately, mine arrived through food. There are things I love that don’t love me back. Bagels. Cake. Certain indulgences that look delightful in the moment and then quietly unr