We like to think of growth as a straight line. We imagine that as we spend years working on ourselves, processing past hardships, healing from life's challenges and health issues, learning better boundaries, and quietly building our inner strength, we eventually become somewhat bulletproof. We tell ourselves that the stronger and wiser we become, the less likely we are to be misled. It is a comforting thought. But lately, my evening deep-dives into human behavior have made me

Tonight I watched my beautiful niece marry the man she loves. Their ceremony, officiated by the groom's father, was traditional, filled with Scripture, prayers, and reminders that marriage is more than a celebration. It is a covenant. A promise. A decision made over and over again, especially on the days when it isn't easy. There were passages about commitment. About forgiveness. About sacrifice. About a husband leading and protecting his family. About a wife honoring and tru