Slow Down With the Sunset
- MaryNell Goolsby
- Aug 17
- 2 min read

There’s something healing about slowing down and letting the day close gently. For me, living in Charleston is a blessing—I can step onto my patio or walk a few blocks and find myself face-to-face with the glow of the setting sun. Some evenings, it paints the sky in fiery oranges and pinks; other times, it’s a soft wash of lavender and gold. No matter the colors, the effect is the same: my body relaxes, my breath deepens, and my mind quiets.
Science agrees with what our souls already know—spending time in nature reduces stress, lowers blood pressure, and calms the nervous system. Whether it’s the salt air by the ocean, the sound of waves tumbling in rhythm, or the simple stillness of a quiet backyard, nature works like medicine. The ocean is my sanctuary, but not everyone lives near the coast. That doesn’t matter—you can still claim your patch of peace. A city park, a neighborhood trail, or a chair on the porch watching the birds can be your daily reminder that life is beautiful.
Tonight, I’m sitting on my patio in my gown, plate empty after a simple dinner of pasta tossed with lemon butter, peppers, and a soft egg. It wasn’t fancy, but it was lovely—made more so by the gratitude I felt while eating it. Gratitude for abundance, for health, for sunsets I don’t take for granted. Gratitude for the life I’ve been given, even with its twists and turns.
I’ll admit, I look forward to the day I have someone special to share these evenings with. But until then, I won’t stop living fully. Love will find me one day, but in the meantime, I have sunsets to watch, ocean breezes to breathe, and a heart that knows slowing down is one of the healthiest, happiest things I can do.
So wherever you are, carve out a moment. Let the day settle. Watch the sky change, listen to the birds, feel the air on your skin. Life doesn’t ask for much—it just asks you to notice.
🌿 May the stillness restore you, as it does me,
🌼 Honey
